Cemar, you irritate me. Every time I actually try to answer one of your questions, you ask another dumb one that is absolutely unanswerable. I don't even KNOW FOR SURE whether I am LD or HD so how the hell do I know what one or the other THINKS.

And, just for the record, I'm not just "trying to give him more sex," I am trying to work on saving my M and making it a good place FOR BOTH OF US. I actually enjoy S now that we are having it more and on a regular basis. I like it when I feel comfortable enough to come out of my shell a bit and try new & different things. I'm NOT "just doing it for H."

And, since you are such the expert, all of the things you said described HD women pertain to me as well SOOOO according to Cemar, I must be HD. All of these things are how I feel as well: "Some HD women on here make it clear that they WANT to give pleasure to their husbands, that being a great lover to their husband actually makes them feel better about themselves. HD women LIKE the effect they have on their men, they LIKE giving incredible pleasure, they WANT to be great lovers."


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10