Something I have never understood is why LD women look at sex in such a different way as compared to HD women or HD men. LD women seem to focus on how the sex will be for them and if they are in the mood. I tend to see sex in terms of GIVING great pleasure to another human being, not in terms of weather I have an orgasam. In fact, many times I only want to do her, it is not for me. So why don't LD women want to GIVE incredible pleasure to another human being?
Some of the LD women on here actually GIVE BJ's because they actually ENJOY giving the man this pleasure, but most LD women DON't think that way. WHY? It just seems so incredibly selfish (a term that IS used in conjuction with LD). Since LD women are NOT giving pleasure to their spouses, what do LD women actually think that they ARE giving to their spouses? My guess is that LD women actually BELIEVE that something in all the many things they do is actually GIVING something to their spouse, but what is it?
I thought wanting to give your spouse pleasure isn't enough, cemar. I thought "giving" was "bad". I thought they had to have this raging desire for you or it doesn't "count." Which is it?
