There is a part of H that registers this...he has made plans for us to go away for a weekend around Valentines Day - just him, me and baby so that we can "spend some time together" - he hasn't said a word about sex but I am pretty sure he plans it to be in there somewhere. Thing is, I am having trouble wrapping my mind around "just doing it" as if it were normal in this R. Am I a whacko or what? I mean, wouldn't a break in the routine of not having sex for months on end merit a conversation? Maybe I am being too hopeful -maybe he really does intend for us to go away together for a weekend and not have sex. That would be weird for him but....