Love Languages ... I think W's is "Words of Affirmation" and "Gifts".
Don't know mine. W has been so hurtful for so long that any of these would work well: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Quality Time.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread