Nikki, There is one thing that I have been sure of during this whole process. It is that time is on our side. I have nothing but time right now. Time to sit and think about the future that I want for myself, time to give him to figure things out, and time to make myself a better person.
I will give H time until I have no more to give. I do not know how long that will take, but I am sure I will know when the time comes.
Your H will have many mood swings, like mine does. He need to just take it from where it is coming from (the alien!) and not take it personally. They need to figure things out for themselves.
