Would love your advice/input on something I've been hung up on today.
What does it mean that H did things to deliberately hurt my feelings? We talk often about how H is just thinking about himself and isn't thinking about me, but H did things deliberately to hurt my feelings. H skipped out on Father's Day celebration w/ my family to hang out with OW. I didn't know that at the time, but later found out. When I asked him about it, he said that he did it on purpose to piss me off so that I would leave him.
So, H did do things to deliberately hurt me.
I'm having a really hard time dealing with this. What am I supposed to say/feel about this? I mean, he hurt me on purpose...how much am I supposed to forgive? I know I can, but Goodness! How much am I supposed to tolerate? Why would he do that? How could he do that to me?
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF
