Thanks Nut; don't worry about D7. That is my #1 priority right now and I guarantee you that I will see her at least 50% of the time. If W continues on this path (which incidentally she can not sustain without help) I am fairly certain that I will have custody of D7 within 6 months. the only help she has is MIL and at the risk of repeating myself and or sounding bitter, she is not reliable. She may help her for a couple of weeks but long range......forget about it.
Woog, thanks again for your support. With the events that have transpired lately, it's kind of weird that I feel sorry for W and have very little anger towards her. I hardly recognize myself. I hope this is not the calm before the storm. The "suffering" seems to have shifted to her now as guilt is taking it's toll. She is the one who is struggling with sleep etc. I guess the upcoming announcement to D7 is really on her mind.
Finally after listening to her last night, nothing she said about me is (in my opinion of course) enough for a normal person to even consider divorce. I guess she is not or has not been normal for a couple of months. I wonder if i should make a last ditch effort prior to the announcement on Saturday to again ask her to work on our R.....I know this is pursuing but if we announce this to D7, I think something will die inside me and i will not be able to respect my W the way a husband should after that.
Just when I thought I was out, they drag me back in!
