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they will choose one child to cling on to and make that child their own personal possession.


I hadn't realised this was an MLC trait. A lot of things make sense to me now. My H has consistently done things for S15 and not done the same for our Ds. This has agrieved them and I have had to sort the arguements out! My tack has always been that I think H does things with D15 b/c out of all them he is the only one who will tolerate seeing OW. S15 has told us all that he doesn't really want to see OW but if it is the only way he can have some sort of R with his dad then he will put up with it. I have accepted this and to a point so have my girls. This however now makes so much more sense.

Thanks Snodderly (sorry for hijack Simon)


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15