OK I have a question, I have undoubtedly discovered W LL as quality time, but she returns it to me in acts of service, hence the upturn in our sitch. How do I let her know that my LL is touch and that this mis match between is one of the broken pieces in our jigsaw. It's a tough question but one I think will need to be answered if we are to piece things together. (I've got my thinking cap on).
Lan, You are so insightful! Physical Touch is I think the hardest one to "ask for". Looks like you may have to gradually snuggle up to W on those TV and popcorn nights. And when she finally puts her arm around you say you like it when she does that and maybe go further and discus your love languages. But looks like things are going in the right direction if she's reaching out to you with love (acts of service may actually be high up on her list along with Quality Time - remember the bathroom fix, etc.).
Later ... got to get the kids off to school now.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread
