That'll teach you to mess with a horny woman Cemar.
Seriously though Cemar ... surely you understand that the best thing is for the spouse to want it for him/herself. If you want something, then if someone gives it to you, you feel loved and are more likely to reciprocate (in more ways than just sex, as Karen so eloquently put). Giving someone else sexual pleasure is easy if you want it from them yourself. That's the nature of the beast. The problem is that wanting it for him/herself often means navigating through boatloads of FOO shiat (including the current R), something many "LD" people don't want to do. And you can't make them do it, or it isn't real.
This is nothing new Cemar, many other have said this many times.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
