For fcuk's sake. What things does an LD person want to give their partner? The same as an HD person - companionship, friendship, partnership, co-parenting, someone to get old with, recreation. There are about a million reasons that people are together besides sex and desire and they are important too. Additionally, your entire premise that HD people are so giving while LD people are so witholding is crap! I don't just want to do my H because I want him to feel great pleasure. Sure, I want him to feel pleasure it is part of the give and take of great sex. However, I also really want him to screw me 16 ways to Sunday because it is pleasureable for me. Get honest about your intentions.
