I don't know if I could be as cool with my H's OW calling/texting while I was around, so kudos to you.
Yes, it is a strange deal, but this article helped me a lot. It's been exactly what happened to me, now she's complaining to me about OM! Unconditional friendship seems to be working, but I can't continue like this forever.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK