but it just breaks my heart that he seems so blissfully happy, so carefree ============ correct, he SEEMS, and for a while he's having a good time, when the day is over and no ow is around, he sinks deeper in despair, it just does not seem that way.
Are you in speaking terms w his mom? why is she allowing this? I know my H's mom wouldnt' let him move in so H had to finance a way to get a place & be responsible. Check with child services how much he ought to pay you , there might even be a tool online or a place you can call, your H needs to own up to his duties.
I know how hard this is honey, you need to plan in case he never comes back, limbo is sickening, when possible please talk to a T, it will help you cope with the months to come.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
