(Mojo) I want everything to be light and romantic.
I don't blame you a bit. I think you're crazy because your recent trend is to get involved with men who want to make the R heavier than you require.
You have to understand that due to the male tendency towards "chasing" if I try to keep a relationship "light" I will frequently get the opposite reaction. OTOH, if I start folding a guys laundry and telling him that "I really like him." he will either disappear on me or I will find myself in an actual "heavy" relationship. I really don't want to play games in my relationships but the maddening thing is that even if you are both self-aware and everything is spelled out human reflexive psychological reactions can't be avoided. For instance, if I said "Don't think that this means that I want to be in a relationship with you." as I started folding a guy's laundry, all I've done is slightly modified/mitigated cow behavior by changing it into meta-cow behavior.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
