well, all hell broke loose, it is over and done

[Heartbroken]

Boy I feel your pain. We - LBSs CONTINUALLY want to believe in them, to believe they are done with the OP - we want to believe the best in everyone and there lies our fault - to big of a heart...

Ask him what about YOUR PAIN!!! Why are they so flippin' concerned about the OW but their wive's pain counts for nothing!! I never did get that as my H kept hurting me too..

Separation may shock some sense into him - at this point what do you have to lose? Afraid he'll be with OW - hell he still is to some extent...

HB