She's gone...I'm devastated, but hopeful

[SirPrizeMe]

Good! Stay on track.
by the way, no R talk with the in-laws either!

Assume there is a direct line between your mouth, and your W's ears, when you are speaking with your inlaws. Talk to them about anything except the R. You can say honest vague things like "It's not a very good situation." or "It's tough on both us us I guess." but do not
- break down or get emotional
- blame her
- criticize her
- ask for their intervention
- profess your undying love for her
- do anything else overly dramatic
- upset them

They love her, too. Just be solid. Be the man. Be the strength.