Thanks Was2Sad, my W searches out people who will parent her in some ways, she searches for White Knights and i was that person for a long time. Yet, things like family got in the way of her being everything and she's found someone else to take that role. You are right, she has made her own destiny and what I need to do is just allow it to be and carry on building my life. Forgivenss is imperative, as much for me as for her. She is obviously an unhappy person and that is why she still carries whatever she carries that makes me furniture. What is is!
