SO2,
I think this great news and I think you did a FANTASTIC job! Very inspiring. Maybe I'll use some of this when my H comes to his senses! ;\)

You sound like you're feeling good and strong about things.
Good for you!
J~

M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out