It's really tough and it took me awhile to get from "you have to cowboy up to being the one that's leaving and not willing to try" to "sometimes in a marriage b/c of frustration and unhappiness a break is needed to give some space so the best decisions for the future of the family can be made. No one is to blame." What has it gained me? An ally in raising our D's.
Whatever will work best for the kids and you is worth really thinking about.
This IS incredibly hard.
I am struggling with htis as well.
Talk about being the bigger person.
What strength and grace.
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.
