Like Mcc I find that the more “power” I take away from my W over my feelings the more dominate I become in our sitch, Now I am talking without having the final R talk but I feel I am building a foundation that I need to stand on. We all have come sooo Far... From the sobbing begging pathetic spouse asking for another chance to letting them ask for another chance. I am sad for those of us that D seems inevitable but.... Even after D does not mean that it is the end. It will be the start of a new life. A life without our spouse that is more to our likening, with all of the things we have learned or a life back with our spouse that is better than ever before.......
So I think I may have forgotten to mention last night we had dinner as a family at the kit ion table.... Wife idea........ This is a major step this is the second day in a row... before it has been ...son in front of computer... Wife in living room and me at the table by myself...... Wife has been very talkative..... We have had a full moon so I don’t know if that had anything to do with it. If this all does not makes sense I apologize. I just got back from MIL house I had to fix her furnace...then as always I had a couple shots of J.D there MIL insisted.... So I am feeling no pain right now... OMG.... See Mcc I told ya ... W just came up to me and gave me a piece of cheese that she wanted me to taste ... she’s using it in dinner tonight.........It nice to be king..........Mark buddy I soon hope to be giving you the crown of longest married man with no sex............Ok everyone 26 more days till VEGAS........................
Everyone hang on ...... things will get better..... With or without our spouses
They call me........
Dr. Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
