She's ready to move on

[Michael Mc C]

HFF - Even with the A over now, my W insists that we HAVE to divorce at this point. She doesn't believe that the relationship with OM was a mistake, even though OM is now working on his own marriage. She is so dead set against marriage right now. She keeps telling me that we have "blurred the lines" - meaning that although we're friendly and were sleeping in the same bed, there should be no expectation that we are going to try to remain married.

She has moved back to the couch and once again seems adamant about this. It's a cycle she's gone through in the past. Maybe this time I just need to stick to my guns and, like Frank_D once told me, don't let myself get sucked back in too easily (which is exactly what happened the day AFTER Frank mentioned that to me in November...)