Did I Screw Up?

[Jen1967]

UPDATE: H wants to work on M. We went to C once, then H went on business trip. C told him to not talk to OW while out there, H told me he wouldn't. He said he told OW not to call him. He called from trip and said he wants to have long talk when he gets home Friday. He said he needs me, is thinking of me, and misses me. Then he said this pic I sent him is hot. This is a fast turnaround.

He also mentioned taking kids and me on trip in Feb. This is fast. He doesn't live here yet. I'm not sure how to handle all of this.

What seemed to work for me was this: DB for 3.5 months, then when he admitted to A, back off, was not available, looked like I wanted D, said "enough is enough, make a choice", made appt with C, sent him the date and directions. When he asked if I loved him and could forgive him, I said yes. So it's a weird combo of DBing, then playing hardball, moving on, but letting him know I do love him. Strange, but something worked.

Now, onto piecing......