She's ready to move on

[Michael Mc C]

Thanks lwb and husband!

You are so right husband. I have multiple examples from today alone. W asked me if she could make me breakfast, asked me to work upstairs, asked me to spend my lunch with her, asked me to come up for coffee, offered to load my plate at dinner.

Most of these things ended a while ago. I did, of course, take her up on certain things (breakfast, dinner and coffee). I did not want to avail myself to her every whim. Hell, the last time she started asking me to work from upstairs was before OM came back. When he did come back, I mentioned those invitations to her and she said it had nothing to do with reconnection it was because she needed another 'person' to interact with. A body, any body.

Nice.

Anyway, I will continue on this path as best I can. It's amazing how much strength can come from behaving deliberately instead of in a 'programmed' fashion.