The problem with that is I was married at 21 and dated exclusively (mostly) for almost four years before that. Being wolf-dominant in Rs is not second nature to me. I could comfortably fall into the "no romantic Rs" option but I suspect a large part of that decision would be avoiding the anxiety I'd have dealing with the unfamiliar (i.e. wolf-dominance). The answer seems to be working at being wolf-dominant until that option causes no more anxiety than the no-romance option, then making an honest choice.
Okay, that's cool. I didn't understand your sich. You surely deserve a gettin' your ya-yas out wolf phase of life post-crap LTR. My sich is different because I was married to a man who was a seriously non-affectionate non-validating dick head and vibed dysfunctional wolf/monkey to the extent he was sexual for 19 years so I need a date-men-who-treat-me-like-my-7th-grade-boyfriend phase. I want everything to be light and romantic. Of course, I can't actually have sex with them unless they vibe a bit wolf too.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
