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Thanks Ann. It seems more that I see changes in W and I'm not sure what to make of it tho' I'll go with Lan's and your assessment for now that her changes are more a result of my changes rather than her getting comfortable with her sitch. But she is a tough nut to crack so if anything it will take me longer than most.

I don't GAL much because resources (time and money) are very limited as I have your kids I get every other week and I've got to spend all my time with them and in the alternate weeks I have to catch up on everything else. I do sometimes make it to the gym or to friends houses. But that's it - nothing wild like bars, dancing, dating, etc. which I don't much care for anyway.

Can anyone suggest something to do as far a 180, etc. ? I'm at a loss. I thought I'd lie low for a few days and see if she initiates the next meeting based on my efforts so far. But that's all I can think of.