I agree with Lwb. No slip up... there is a difference from being walked on and doing it because it is the right thing to do. It is kind of weird that I can see again some parallels to our sitches....Let me know if it seems that the less you do for her if the more she starts doing for you... Jus little things.... And I mean this nicely the less respect (for lack of a better word) you have for her, the more she has for you.......It's a strange” game"...... the less I ask "permission" I.E can I have the last muffin or can I do this or that. the more she asks me if she can have the last muffin or can she do this or that.....It seems that the dominate person in the house hold is the one that the other lets dominate.... Ya know what I mean?? We gave them all of the power and then acted like a hurt puppy.... Now we are the big dogs.......
Dr. Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know