My BF certainly doesnt value commitment, he said he "was committed" to me, but isnt anymore. Didnt make sense! I'm not even sure he is in MLC. I wish someone would tell me !! What do you reckon Essie, your H in MLC? Its so confusing isnt it, they are both young (34 and 32), but guess is possible.
True though, if it is MLC, then a type of selfishness kicks in and they can only think of themselves. I see it as a lack of empathy, they are unable to empathise with your position, else they wouldnt be so brutal.
Ali
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread