I really hope that didn't sound insulting to women. I didn't mean it that way. It IS my day for screwing up what I write though.
What I meant to refer to (humerously,) was the way that men, (me at least,) are so typically dense with R talks. In a normal marriage.
Until they get here anyway. Now it seems like I have "Hyper-Hearing."
Yeah, outing the OM is one of those "fantasies" that I know would NEVER help, but would feel sooooooooooooo good, in the counterproductive way that the things I say in my imaginary conversations w/ her feel. (Please tell me that I'm not the only one who has those imaginary convo's where we tell the WAS off, run through their head.)
It's right up there with the fantasy that one day my W will wake up and be the same woman she was 3 years ago.
WAIT,..... if that happened, I'd be in for 3 more years of this! Deep six that fantasy.
I think I'll just confine my fantasies to one day waking up in my bed with her there again.
You're right though, any resistance to the OP IS like telling a teenager that they "can't" do something.
"want to bet...."
Well, so far, leaving the OM sitch alone has been working for me, although it is like a stake through the heart.
No, actually, it IS a stake through the heart.
That's OK though, b/c I'm not allergic to oak, and I'm tough.
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.
