You are right....committment isn't something to be switched on and off! Only in the state that MLCers are in, they can't see that! They can only see themselves and what they think they want or don't want...they are like small children trying to get their way....whining, begging, crying....all the things they teach us not to do in DB. They are lost in their own little fantasy worlds and are fighting to find their way out....they just don't realize or care (at least in my H's case) what damage is being done in the process.
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Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally