Wow..I wish I had such faith in DBing! I agree though, you do sound like a fab woman. I think thats the problem here. Lots of strong, capable woman, and weak, emotionally stunted men..!? Its not so much coming out of their fog, as maybe they need to grow up a bit? Commitment isnt something you just switch on and off.

Ali

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Me: 36
H: 34
T: 9 years
ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07
Moved out: 15 Nov 07
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1324947


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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