We cannot make them see this. You can bad mouth your H, the OW, and any 'enablers' til you are blue in the face. H will not hear it, nor will he care at this point in time.
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Are you saying I am not doing it right, not doing enough; you don't think he will realize that the our marriage is a good deal at some point?
To be honest, no. You aren't doing it right. You are R talking all the time, you are being angry with him, you are giving him cheap shots, you are talking down to him (about you being more moral than him). You are not doing anything for yourself. Why would you go running with him after he spent the day with OW? You should have gone yourself or taken the kids yourself.
Making yourself more attractive and GAL is for YOU, not for him.
