You guys have at least started to wake me up a bit. I think that because I don't think she's MLC (which I am starting to question, a bit) I have been assuming that logic and reason apply. And they probably do, but they are not the same logic and reason I would use. I don't know how many times I've typed that it really doesn't matter it it is MLC or not, you do the same thing! But I wasn't appying it in tht other direction! It equally doesn't matter if it is not MLC! Duh! OK, she can live in her cave. I've be nice when she comes out. I'll absolutely live up to my responsibility to my kids. And I'll take care of myself. I'm not going to set a time limit, but I know there is one. At some point, I'll know I'm done, if it comes to that. But until then, I'm not done!

OK, I can tell you when my next crisis is coming, if you want to get prepared. Feb.14, obviously, but I can ignore that pretty easily, we've never mad a big deal of it. But Feb. 16th is out 23rd anniversary. So, I'm sure there will be some angst coming from here then!

((((Lisa)))) ((((BA)))) ((((Everybody else I might have forgotten lately))))