BobbiJo -

I am very impressed with how you are handling this. I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I have not been doing this long enough to offer anything with substance. Hang in there. Don't forget to take care of you, number one. Everything else will fall into place as it should.

If you haven't called a DB coach, you might try that to help guide you a little bit. They are truly wonderful at what they do.

Best of luck ad I will keep watching your thread!

J


H-43
W-41
S-15,S-12,S-11
Together 22 years
Married 15 years
Affair Discovered - March 06
D Day Announcement - Dec 23,07
Move out Day - Feb 15,2008
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1350958&page=0&fpart=1