So does that meant that the problem with my marriage is that I don't clean the kitchen well enough? And sometimes forget to take the trash out?

Bad, bad, bad, negative thoughts! Tonight I will clean the catbox, and take the trash out, because I don't want to get up in time for the trashmen! And I may get out in the garage and do some railroad work. I haven't done much for a few weeks, and I think I should.