Compassion for me is the key right now. I try to put myself in my H's shoes...how would I feel if OP just pulled the rug out from under me? Probably like I feel about what H did/does....I know that pain...he is in pain too. It must be really awful to have such a low self esteem and feel like the whole world is against you...hate the job, the house, my life? I can't really imagine it....but it's H's reality right now! You are right...how long and how much compassion is the question!
You are amazing!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
