Hi Appleroad, You make so much sense. But....what about the fact that he has his own apartment, his freedom and then his wife available to him everytime he summons me? I was thinking of saying that I think the dinner would be fun, but I have tired the last couple of days and could we do it another day?...Then I would see what day that he would suggest. By the way, I just got off the phone w/ him. Nice talk, he asked me about dinner and said that I was tired from having my friend in from out of town. Would there be another day that he could do? He said that he wasn't sure about what was going on over the weekend (it seems that he always wants his weekends to go out w/ buddies). I told him I had plans already for Thursday and Friday. He asked again about Friday and said that I couldn't that I had plans. He said for me to call him Wednesday and we could see how I feel and otherwise, we could find a day that work better. He mentioned that he understood b/c he would want me to take care of myself and then I hung up. How do you think I did?
