I am no expert, but I think you handed it correctly BobbiJo. You stayed cool and collected, and didn't tell your H what he should do. Let him make his own decisions. Wow, as far as the boss. Does he know what is going on? I know you said he told someone at work about the OW. I don't think my H's boss has a clue. His EAs both work w/ him, so I'm sure he is keeping things hush, hush there. I would say just follow your H's lead, don't ask him questions at this point about if he is still moving or where he is staying. Of course this advice is coming from someone who is afraid to ask her H anything. I just think that a WAS sees that as pushing.
I am no expert, but I think you handed it correctly BobbiJo. You stayed cool and collected, and didn't tell your H what he should do. Let him make his own decisions. Wow, as far as the boss. Does he know what is going on? I know you said he told someone at work about the OW. I don't think my H's boss has a clue. His EAs both work w/ him, so I'm sure he is keeping things hush, hush there. I would say just follow your H's lead, don't ask him questions at this point about if he is still moving or where he is staying. Of course this advice is coming from someone who is afraid to ask her H anything. I just think that a WAS sees that as pushing.
