.....well I just dropped her off at the airport to go on her 12 day cruise w/ 40 family members. Hour drive to the airport was really nice, no R talk, no seperation talk, no om (I'm getting pretty good at this DB stuff). I think this 12 day trip is going to be great for both of us. Lots of reflection time and relaxation w/ loved ones for her and alot of dedicated work taking care of my three sons for twelve days. The boys and I will all go to Vermont for a three day weekend along with my brother.
BTW: I got a huge prolonged spectacular hug and two kisses good bye initiated by her. After the hug and kiss I looked into her bueatiful eyes for what seemed like 5 minutes and didn't say a word. No tears and she waited by the airport window until she saw me drive away. She also texted me twice and said she would call tonight.
So what are the bets? She comes home and wants to work on R more or she comes home and drops a Bomb. I am going to continue to "Trust and Love" and be hopeful and optimistic. I am starting to feel much better and looking forward to life no matter what happens.
