So, we're home and she's upstairs in the Bedroom and turns on the stereo and says she's going to 'do some cleaning'. She then starts 'sashaying' around with the music as she picks up stuff. I'm watching because I happen to be there. She see's me watching and gives me a smile.
So, I go an fix a chair in our room and while I'm doing that she takes off her skirt to put on some jeans so she can clean better. She stands on the other side of the room with her back to me and turns around to look at me and I say "Hey, I'm just enjoying the view". She smiles again and puts on her jeans.
Two things are puzzling me. First, did she do these things for my benefit, or was it just because I 'happened' to be in the room that I witnessed them? Recall that earlier in the day her friend 'S', who is thinner and pretty gave me a lot of attention, and I sucked it up instead of pushing it away. Coincidence, or possibly her trying to see if I would still react to her? Or nothing at all?
Second thing that is on my mind is that she doesn't have any issues getting dressed / undressed in front of me. It's just 'life as usual' to her. But 2 years ago during the OM period she would NOT let me see her changing or coming out of the shower.
What's different?
Lastly, I think I need to stop looking at her when she's undressed or dancing around or anything 'provocative'. Not ignore her, just don't react or complement her. It seems like that is a symptom of NOT detaching. And it feeds her ego.
