Thanks BND....not sure that my patience is my strong point now...but I am still standing. I have to say that I really don't do too much for myself. Between work, the house and kids...there is not alot of me time (that and the fact that I have very little money). Was thinking of maybe taking a cooking class...but need to wait until after swim season.

Work is having an employee health day on friday sponsored by our insurance company. They are paying a small bonus to attend and then little bonuses to attend sessions after Friday (like excercise and cooking). SO I think I am going to dive right into that for now. What could be better....doing something for me and earning a little while doing it.

Anyway, H has been pretty active texting and calling the past few days. He had to work last night and couldn't come to d12's meet so I really didn't see too much of him this weekend. He did call early sunday to see what was up and hurried up to see d12 before we left. Part of me hopes in the back of his mind he is hurrying to see me too, but who knows.

Anyway, I am a huge Giants fan, and h tm'd me right after the game telling me how happy he was for me. He was still at work. He said he had been thinking of me during the game.....whatever. Expectations "0". He did also send me a few tm's during the night but i was short and brief and went back to bed.

He then called me first thing this morning at work confirming the time of d12's orthodontist appt. today. He is taking her. He then has counseling. I joked around with him to stop for Indian take out on the way back (it is on the way) and he said he will see how much time they have. I told him I was teasing....

Part of me wonders what he wants (suspiciously) that he is making so much more contact. I know the listing expired on the house....but I said something to d12 about the house the other day, just in conversation, and she said it is not for sale anymore. I didn't say a word to her or ask her any questions about her remark....but filed it away. Who knows, all this niceness from h...he could spring a contract on me and just trying to manipulate me.

Guess we shall see. I truly can't waste the time figuring him out. Just gonna go with the flow for now. It can be so confusing.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Mopsey