We have all gone dark and are practising NC it seems.
In my case, my BF still has some of his stuff here, and we own property, so hes gonna HAVE to contact me at some point. I'm beginning to dread it, as I dont know how to react and I have a feeling hes going to still be disinterested and resolute as before. Essie, is there reason for your H to contact you? Over the D maybe, or joint assets? At least you had some chatty texts a while back. Funny what you said about that though, do I really want to be with a man who buys himself remote control cars !?
Do you think sometimes though, things can go too far, to reconcile? My BF said to me, "people change and grow and go in different directions", although he couldnt describe how he had done this! Cant help thinking, maybe he has a point and I should just accept it, and give up...
driving myself nuts again this evening again. :-)
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
