Sleeper, I read most of your curent thread, and I thought the same thing, we're in just about the exact same place.
I guess our W's have the same version of the "MLC handbook."
And lastly, W and OM have made some enemies along the way who have spread rumors, etc. There was even a confrontation with said enemies that resulted in criminal charges and a pending court date. I have done nothing to interfere and am not suspected for any of the rumors. There are things I could do to interfere with their R and I don't believe I would be suspected at all but have not. I am very,very tempted.
I found this VERY interesting. My W and the OM work together, and have made the same "enemies" at that place. From what she has said over time, there were a few instances with OM and those people that could have turned in to situations requiring police contact, but so far it hasn't happened.
Like you I have done nothing to interfere, but boy, did I want to sometimes. That is the very essence of temptation to me.
At this point, I am glad that I didn't. The way it is playing out seems to be causing introspection as to the consequences of their actions, and since I'm totally divorced from it, (good pun heh?) I'm not a scapegoat for the blame.
Thanks man.
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.