The End or Just the Beginning? Part 3

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Hi Atlas... At this point, i don't think you sponsor knows enough to know what you should do. Share what's been going on, you'll have to at some point anyways, might as well get it out of the way now.

IMO, you should let things move forward with the D. She will not be the W you need until she is ready to face her issues and do something to correct them. There is nothing saying that after D and some C and meds for W, that you guys can't renew friendship/dating/love/M, but for now, i just don't think she can give you that. Seems like you are both just in differnt places right now.

For the house thing, probably someone can let her know that going into a trial will just prolong things. Even if you go to trial and sell, depending on the market, she may not be any better off... When my parents D, my mom was able to get my dad off the loan and extend it out a couple years, don't know if that's something you could look into if you wanted to work with her on that?

Just keep focusing on the sobriety and the little guy.

DH - Vent away... i'm sure i have my crazy moments too!! hehe