I agree with Lan - It's obvious that W sees that changes in you, that's where her change in behavior comes from. You are being nicer and more understanding so she is as well. Problem is I don't see you doing a whole lot of GAL activites (unless you just don't post much of that).
Read through the success stories. Look on the seperated/divorced forums and I think at the begining there are success stories. Those would probably be closest to your sitch.
This is a long road. You really have to decide if you want to go through with it because if you only do it halfway, you aren't going to see any positive results. I know you can do this. It seems hard and probably like a lost cause half the time, but it'll be worth it. Even if you never rekindle things with your W (which i'm hoping is not the case), how much better is your R with her now, then it was when you got here? Have you been doing some 180s? have you been doing stuff for you to make you a better person? Have you learned something about Rs in general. This is all good stuff. So, worst case Senario.... this is still a good thing to be doing. From what I've read, you'll know when you are done. For me, I'm going to be here for a really long time if it takes that, for others, there is only so much they can handle. How much time are the years you spent together worth now? 3 months? 6 months? a year? longer? that's up to you!
Hang in there.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
