Post to Lil and her reply It gave you a reason to be selfish or really a reason to do some self care.
This is very insightful, Lou
I don't know how insightful the thought was. To me it was something I thought about in my own life.
If X (something bad or a serious medical problem) happened to me I was going to not limit myself so much about what I did for Lou and I was going to limit my AOS and guilty feelings, for what I quit doing for BB.
Now I have to think about why not do it before X happens. I can mentally see where the cow/St Bernard/NG part of a person is a dominate trait that needs to be reeled in.
How to be selfish in a good way, that is the topic that needs to be worked on.
