Just read your last couple of posts. You and I are almost in exactly the same sitch;
Wife in mlc (but mine doesn't acknowledge), feels she must be "unattached" for a time to heal (next time she says that I'm going to ask how can she be unattached while OM is fused to her side?)
Wife has filed, but not persuing D full steam, brings up when cycling anger or having money issues.
W seems to be peeking out of tunnel, more like herself, connecting to children, now apologizes for angry outbursts quickly after they occur.
And lastly, W and OM have made some enemies along the way who have spread rumors, etc. There was even a confrontation with said enemies that resulted in criminal charges and a pending court date. I have done nothing to interfere and am not suspected for any of the rumors. There are things I could do to interfere with their R and I don't believe I would be suspected at all but have not. I am very,very tempted.
Last edited by sleeper; 01/21/0806:00 PM.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13