Anyways, this is my segue into saying that although it may not be apparent due to my random fumbling/stumbling manner, on some level I actually have been working my way towards following NOP's advice to me which was to try to find a Wolf who was ready to settle down for my next LTR. IOW hook-up with a guy who is signaling some variation of what Jack is signaling in the article above. At first I thought this was sort of Mission Impossible but I think I've got it pretty much figured out now.
Well, isn't this really the difference between immature wolf and mature wolf. The wolf, through age and wisdom, realizes that keeping himself strong yet detached is really not fulfilling in the end. The wolf wants the same that everyone else wants. He just wasn't willing to let himself be in that vulnerable a position before. So you probably would be smart to find yourself a mature wolf MJ.
