Well I had the big OW bomb confirmed last night. He told me the truth about her and what was going on. I guess i always knew but just never wanted to really believe it. I don't know how to deal with this. he said he could not try to restart our marriage without telling me the whole truth. So great, now I know.
WAS32, I can certainly understand you pain and confusion resulting from this confession, but I think it is a really good sign that your H volunteered this information. It sounds like he is willing to start down the path of repairing your marriage. This revealation as hard as it is to accept is really something that needed to be done in order to heal and in order for you to be able to eventually trust him again. You would have always had that suspicion had he not come clean with you. It will take time to get through the hurt, but it does get better.
