In 2006 I bought her a Prius hybrid. We were 'back together' and the minivan was getting 'tired' and at the time I had no reason to believe business was going to be 'ok'.
Well, if she's leaving then I sure don't want to be paying the car payment any more. I can tell her she has to pay it but that's not in her 'budget' - $400 is a lot of money.
Since I don't want it, we'd have to sell it of course. She can have the minivan, it's paid for, I'll use the leftover money from selling the Prius to get a cheap small car.
I'm not really sure if I should bring this up now, or wait another month and see where we're at. I want to 'tell her this now' so she has to face 'reality' but in my current mental state I'm not sure if it's just me wanting to 'punish' her.