I know, Sir. Even though you know it's coming at some point, the reality is gut-wrenching.
I hope I didn't blow it too much after he informed my that he had filed. He originally said he was going to wait till summer. I tried to explain that once we're D'd, I could no longer remain on his medical plan at work and that he would have to pay exorbitant medical payments through COBRA. He didn't see why that should be, but he will find out I'm right. I was just trying to save him/us some big $$.
This is why I think he may have an OW, or at least be dating now. He's speeding up the time line for dissolution.
Plus, H wants to relocate to CA, but I'm not sure he'll be any happier there. Wherever you go, there you are, right?
He is clinically depressed, and on meds. That still never stopped his black moods all these years, and when he gets something into his head, he just goes full bore with a very narrow focus.
I just want to back off and avoid him and his process server for awhile. Any ideas on how to avoid being served? :):):)
